by Diane Bowden | Oct 6, 2019 | Announcement, Committees, Nominating
MESSAGE FROM NOMINATING COMMITTEE 10/2019
Nominating Committee is in the process of recruiting for Richmond Meeting Committees and Positions for 2020.
The following update shows the committees and positions that still need to be filled:
Attenders and members can participate on these committees:
Hospitality (Need 2)
Library (Need 2)
Peace and Social Concerns (Need 1-2
Spring Retreat (Need 2)
Work Camp (Need 5+)
Clearing Committees: Oversight (1); Usage & Promotion (1)
You need to be a member of RFM for the committees below:
Adult Spiritual Education (need 2)
Care and Counsel (need 5)
Ministry and Worship (need 1-2)
Nominating (Need 2)
Positions needed (membership not required)
American Friends Service Committee Representative
If you are so led to join one of these committees please contact Clarisse Harton, Clerk of Nominating Committee:
by Diane Bowden | Oct 2, 2019 | Announcement
Twelve students and 2 teachers from Carolina Friends School will be camping out at RFM starting Friday, October 4, and leaving early Sunday morning, October 6. They will be attending events in Richmond. This is their year using our facilities.
Any questions or concerns, contact Bob Alexander
by Diane Bowden | Sep 15, 2019 | History - Quaker, History - RFM
R. Arnold Ricks III, 94, on February 24, 2018, at home in Bennington, Vt. Arnold was born on August 23, 1923, in Richmond, Va., to Anne Elizabeth Ryland and James Hoge Ricks. His father, a member of Richmond (Va.) Meeting, was from a long-established Quaker family and served as a pioneering judge of the Richmond Juvenile and Domestic Relations Court for forty years, and his mother was from a Baptist family associated with the development of University of Richmond. A life-long Quaker, Arnold served in the Civilian Public Service as a conscientious objector, in 1941–1943 firefighting and doing reforestation in Oregon’s wilderness region and being an subjecting himself to experiments with hepatitis, which he contracted. In 1945 he joined the British-American relief team in rebuilding Cologne, Germany, where he helped to build a children’s center.
Originally a member of the Haverford College class of 1945, he graduated Phi Beta Kappa in philosophy in 1948.. After earning a master’s in European history from Harvard University in 1954, he taught history at Swarthmore College. In 1963, he began teaching at Bennington College, where he also served two years as Dean of Studies. A beloved teacher, he spoke of classes as an “assault on the unknown and the imperfectly known.” In 1972 he married Pat Adams, a painter and colleague at Bennington College, and after a 4-month sabbatical in 1973, traveling through Europe and the Middle-East with his stepsons, Matthew and Jason, they settled in Old Bennington, Vt. Starting in 1974 he served as a trustee of the Village of Old Bennington and as Road Commission, overseeing the design and reconstruction of Monument Avenue, the village road leading to the Bennington Battle Monument, ensuring that the historic road would be in narrow in keeping with its environs, which go back to when the first frame house in Vermont was built in Bennington in 1763--a house still in use.
For decades he made generous contributions to Richmond (Va.) Meeting. He retired from Bennington College in 1992. Three years later, the mayor of Cologne, who as a child had benefited from the British-American Relief team’s work, led a celebration in honor of him and the other surviving team members. When he retired as a trustee of Old Bennington in 2014, the villagers presented him with an inscribed bench on the grass island in front of the Old First Church. As a trustee of the Bennington Museum from 1995 to 2015, he helped initiate a period of growth and revitalization for the museum, for which in 2013 it created the Hiland Hall Award to recognize his service. He lived as George Fox said, “[walking] cheerfully over the world answering that of God in everyone.”
Arnold is survived by his wife, Pat Adams; two stepsons, Matthew A. Longo and Jason R. Longo; a niece, Francie Ricks; three grandsons; and many Ryland cousins in Virginia. His remains rest in Old Bennington Cemetery. Donations to American Friends Service Committee or the Bennington Museum in care of the Hanson Walbridge & Shea Funeral Home, 213 West Main Street, Bennington, VT, are welcome.
by Diane Bowden | Sep 15, 2019 | Announcement, Peace and Social Concerns
The mission of Circles RVA is to “offer a relationship-based model to empower individuals and families to permanently move out of poverty and thrive by engaging the strengths, goodwill and existing resources of the community and focus on the collaborative ownership of solutions to break the cycle of poverty”. Circles RVA is an area of focus for the Peace & Social Concerns Committee. As part of our support we are providing four dinners for their weekly meetings.*
Our third meal for Circles RVA will be on September 24. Mark Skolnick will be collecting donations to cover
the costs for this meal. If you would like to help with the serving of this meal, please contact Rhonda Ligon or Verna Boos. *(RFM has made the commitment to support these four meals for Circles RVA).
by Diane Bowden | Sep 15, 2019 | Announcement, Queries
Baltimore Yearly Meeting Queries on Peace (2013 Resource for Faith & Practice)
How does my life reflect “the virtue of that life and power which takes away the occasion for war”? Where there are hatred, division, and strife, how are we instruments of reconciliation and love?
How do our lives illustrate our understanding of the basis of our peace testimony?
As we work for peace, are we nourished by peace within and among ourselves?
How do we regard those we believe have harmed us or others? How does this affect our spiritual lives?
Peace Voices (2013 Resource)
We must be prepared to make the same heroic sacrifices for the cause of peace that we make ungrudgingly for the cause of war. There is no task that is more important or closer to my heart. Albert Einstein, c. 1930
It is not our Quakerism, or our pacifism, or our knowledge, or skill, or emotion that overcomes hate and violence. We shall surely fail if we become proud of our virtue and traditions and become vain in our witness. We shall fail if we think the power that may move through us is our own. The power is not ours, it is God’s…. The foundation is faith in the power of God’s love to transform us and our society and to bring justice to the poor and the oppressed. Our task is to act, as best we understand what we are led to do, in obedience to that power. Mary Lord, 2002