by Diane Bowden | Jul 29, 2023 | Care and Counsel
To the Richmond Friends Meeting community,
Brooke Davis, Nick Martina, and Andrew Kossan are deeply grieving after the heartbreaking sudden death by overdose of Andrew's older brother, Alex, on July 21. The Care + Counsel committee of Richmond Friends Meeting has organized this Meal Train service so that the family won't have to worry about dinner meals twice a week for the next three months. Andrew has a big appetite, so preparing for 3-4 adults is a good strategy. Along with the sustenance these meals provide, please send Brooke, Nick, and Andrew lots of love and Light during this tragic and difficult time for their family.
If you have difficulty using the link below to access the Meal Train schedule or need help signing up, contact Randee Humphrey.
by Diane Bowden | Jul 14, 2023 | Clerk’s Business
Over 50 responses to the query, "What should RFM do regarding race and racism?,” have been received and are now available on the password-protected portion of the Richmond Friends Meeting website. First, go to https://staging.richmondfriends.org/. Second, click on “Login.” Third, enter the password. Fourth, click on "Ad Hoc Committee on Race and Racism."
If you have any questions or comments, contact any of the members of the Ad Hoc Committee on Race and Racism: Margaret Edds, Allen Lee, Kathleen Morgan, Ruth Morrison, Lynda Perry, Michael Pierce, Monica Shaw, Rita Willett.
by Diane Bowden | Jun 2, 2023 | Clerk’s Business
First deeply consider your own experiences and actions regarding race and racism, and those of Richmond Friends Meeting, and the wider society. Then please write your response to this query:
What should RFM do regarding race and racism?
Members and attenders can respond in one of two ways, both designed to offer anonymity:
1. Provide your written response electronically using a special form at this link: https://tinyurl.com/3j935mjk
2. Write your answer on paper and place it in the drop box we’ve placed under the bulletin board in the foyer behind the meeting room.
Please respond by June 30. Beginning on July 15, all query responses will be made available for the entire RFM community to read on the password-protected portion of the RFM web site. If you need access, the committee can supply you with the password.
Sometime in August, the committee will embark on subsequent phases of the discernment and make available additional ways that RFM members and attenders can reflect on the query. Subsequent phases may include one-on-one sharing, listening circles, threshing sessions, and other forms of reflection.
Thank you for taking on the good, hard work of thinking about and answering the query. May we embrace this as an authentic exploration, begun out of curiosity, concern, and openness to what the way forward might be – not out of a sense of having all the answers, but knowing that all of us are likely on different places along the spectrum of understanding how race affects each of us and the society we live in. May we encourage one another to embrace vulnerability, and listen with humility and acceptance of our varied experiences and understandings of the impact of race and racism.
As a reminder, RFM approved the formation of the Ad Hoc Committee on Race and Racism during our twelfth-month 2022 Meeting for Worship with Attention to Business. The committee’s charge is to: 1) develop and engage the Meeting in an inclusive and open discernment process to learn what our meeting is led to do around race and racism; and 2) using the learning gained from the discernment process, develop an action/implementation plan that engages committees and individuals.
Thank you again for your deep consideration of this query and for adding your voice to Meeting’s discernment process. Please reach out to any of the committee members if you have questions or concerns.
by Diane Bowden | May 28, 2023 | Clerk’s Business
What are we at Richmond Friends Meeting led to do around race and racism? At our business meeting in December of 2022, we approved the formation of the Ad Hoc Committee on Race and Racism. The committee’s charge is to 1) develop and engage the Meeting in an inclusive and open discernment process to learn what our meeting is led to do around race and racism; and 2) using the learning gained from the discernment process, develop an action/implementation plan that engages committees and individuals within the meeting.
The ad hoc committee will begin the first phase of our discernment process in June. Subsequent phases may include one-on-one sharing, listening circles, threshing sessions, and other forms of reflection. For the first step, we will invite all members and attenders of RFM to anonymously contribute a written response to the following query:
“Please think about your own experiences and actions regarding race and racism and those of RFM and the wider society. Then, please answer this query: What should RFM do regarding race and racism?”
Here’s how it will work: On June 1, the committee will send an e-mail to the RFM mailing list (list serv) with a link to a website where a written response can be anonymously submitted through June 30. We will also install a drop box below the bulletin board at the meetinghouse, so members and attenders who prefer can submit a hard copy of their response. Beginning on July 15, all query responses will be made available for the entire RFM community to read on the password-protected portion of the RFM web site. If you need access, the committee can supply you with the password.
Sometime in August, the committee will embark on subsequent phases of the discernment and make available additional ways that RFM members and attenders can reflect on the query. Thanks in advance to our Meeting community for taking on this good, hard work. May we embrace this as an authentic exploration, begun out of curiosity and openness to what the way forward might be – not out of a sense of having all the answers, but knowing that all of us are on different places along the spectrum of understanding how race affects each of us and the society we live in. May we encourage one another to embrace vulnerability, and listen with humility and acceptance of our varied experiences and understandings of the impact of race and racism.
If you have any questions please don't hesitate to contact any of the committee members: Allen Lee (co-clerk), Kathleen Morgan (co-clerk), Margaret Edds, Ruth Morrison, Michael Pierce, Lynda Perry, Monica Shaw and Rita Willett.
by Diane Bowden | Apr 27, 2023 | Uncategorized
Elizabeth Price and her family need assistance:
Elizabeth Price, mom of Rebecca and Joshua is having bicuspid aortic valve surgery on 4/28/23. The procedure involves open heart surgery and replacing her valve with a mechanical one. Complete recovery may take up to 6 months. So, there is a need for assistance over a long period of time. Richmond Friends will be joining with Elizabeth’s family and local Ashland/Hanover friends to offer tangible support in the way of meals and rides to and from Meeting for Rebecca and Joshua. Below are links to sign up
Meal Train: https://www.mealtrain.com/trains/o9900n%5C
This link provides a calendar for signing up for meals through May. It will be continually updated.
The family has a refrigerator in their garage which can be accessed with a code. This will permit Friends to bring a meal at a time convenient to them throughout the day or even a day or two in advance. Text Denna for the access code.
If you cannot provide a meal, consider restaurant vouchers for McDonald's, Dominoes, Jersey Mikes and Panera. Contact Denna if you would like assistance in getting a voucher to the family.
Consider sharing the task of bringing a meal with another RFM member/attender. Ride up together and enjoy eating and visiting shops along the railroad.
TO ASSIST DRIVING REBECCA & JOSHUA TO MEETING
Driving (Sign Up Genius) https://www.signupgenius.com/go/20f0a44acaa2ea3f49-drivers#/
Folks might want to consider signing up in pairs to split rides to and from Meeting.
Contact Care and Counsel for more information